How to increase blessings - Babar R Chaudhry

How to increase blessings - Babar R Chaudhry

  I was born in a middle class family.Although I didn't have all the material  resources I saw people around me had. But I always used to wonder how blessed people around me were. I did not know how to increase my blessings.

I used to feel very inferior when I was around my friends. I used lie about my way of living. I used to constantly complain about the things that I did not have. My complexes and low self esteem made me act like a person that I wasn't. My confidence was completely shattered. I used to avoid going out in social gatherings. At the end of the day I felt very lonely. I went into depression. My relations with my parents and family became worse. I became aggressive and mean. My so called friends who I was inspired by left me when I was in trouble. My parents and family also gave up on me. I was a mess. I lost hope. I gave up on life.

Luckily a coworker introduced me to a website named Arrahman-Arraheem.com. When I went through the website and saw the documentaries and lectures by Babar Chaudhry I learned a lot about life. I learned about my mistakes. I also learned what I was doing wrong.

 

HOW I CHANGED:

 After watching Babar Chaudhry's lectures about God and the Holy Quran my eyes opened. My life changed completely. I finally realized the blessings Allah (God) had given me. I learned that if I want to be happy and satisfied in life I have to realize the bounties and blessings Allah (God) has provided me. I have to be thankful to Him and show my gratitude to Him. I learned the way to increase my blessings.

With the help of Babar Chaudhry I learned that if I want to become the best and a role model for others then I have to change myself. I have to stop complaining and lying about myself. I have to realize that I am the most blessed person in the world. I soon realized about how blessed I was. Allah (God) has given me health. A loving family. I get everything I need. I realized about God's mercy. With the help of Babar Chaudhry I discovered that if I'm thankful to Allah (God) I will always be happy and content in life.

WHAT I LEARNED :

With the help of Arrahman-Arraheem and Babar Chaudhry I learned through the teachings of the Holy Quran that if I want get the blessings of Allah (God) I have to live my life according to the will of God. This way I won't only be blessed but my blessings will also increase.

Allah says in the Holy Quran:

“And [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, 'If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]; but if you deny, indeed, My punishment is severe.’”

 Chapter Ibrahim 14. verse 7.

I learned through this verse that if I want to increase blessings in my life then I have to be thankful. I have to stop complaining. I have to be content. I have accept myself as who I am and what I have and be happy in it. I have to stop showing off. I shouldn't only be greedy for material wealth. Babar Chaudhry made me realize that I should not only be greedy for material wealth. Money and wealth does not make a person happy and content. It is Allah (God) who gives happiness and prosperity. If I'm thankful and grateful to God He will increase His blessings and bounties on me. I learned through Babar Chaudhry that the secret to increase blessings lies in being thankful to God.

HOW I INCREASED MY BLESSINGS:

I learned through Arrahman-Arraheem.com to increase my blessings I have be thankful. To be thankful I have to adopt certain characteristics in my life. I have to follow the instructions of Allah (God) in my life. Through Babar Chaudhry I learned the following tips to be thankful. And to increase my blessings.

1. :

To be thankful I have to firstly be grateful to the people who care for me especially my parents and family. I have to behave and interact with them in a good manner. I have to improve my relations with them by being humble and kind.

2. Realization Of Blessings:

 To be thankful and to increase my blessings I have to realize what I have. I have to realize that Allah (God)  has given me what is best for me. This way I will become thankful and Allah (God) will increase my blessings.

3. Work In The Way Of Allah:

 After realizing my blessings I have to utilize them. I have to use the blessings God has given me in a positive manner. By giving and sharing with others. Helping people who are in need. I have to use my blessings in the way of Allah (God). The way God wants.

4. Special Characteristics:

I learned through Babar Chaudhry's teachings that if I want to increase my blessings then be kind. I have to be down to earth. I have to be humble. I have to be giving. I have to be content. Without these special characteristics I cannot establish good relations with people. Because a thankful person has all these qualities.

5. Hope And Trust In God:

If I want to increase my blessings then I have to trust God and believe in Him. I cannot lose hope. If I trust Allah (God) and believe that He always do the best for me this way I will learn to be thankful.

6. Accept Yourself As The Person You Are:

With the help of Arrahman-Arraheem.com l learned that if I want to increase my blessings then I have to learn to accept who I am. I shouldn't be afraid of telling people about the resources that I don't have.

7. Follow The Instructions Of Allah:

 If I want to increase my blessings then I have to follow the footsteps of our Holy Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). If we follow the instructions of Allah (God) and last Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Then Allah will open doors of His blessings and bounties.

8. Sincerity And Honesty:

 To increase blessings I have to be sincere and honest. Only then will I be able to be thankful of the blessings Allah has provided me with.

9. Positive Thinking:

To increase my blessings it is very important for me to think positive. I have to stop being pessimistic. If I let negativity take over me I will never be able to be happy in life. Thus will never be able to be thankful and increase blessings.

10.  Gratitude And Contentment:

If I want to increase my blessings it is important for me to show gratitude and be content. I have to stay happy in what I have. I can not just demand for the things I don't have. It is important to realize that just earning money and wealth is not the solution to increasing blessings.

Arrahman-Arraheem.com and Babar Chaudhry helped me a lot to increase my blessings. Babar Chaudhry helped me become a better person. Because I was in a phase of life in which I completely lost hope. I was depressed and sad. My interaction with people became very limited. I was lonely. I felt as if everything was over. But through Arrahman-Arraheem.com I found hope. Babar Chaudhry's teachings helped me come out of depression. My relations with my family improved. My interaction with people became better. I became more humble and kind. I have become a better human being than before.

After this drastic change in my life I finally realized that the blessings that God has provided me are countless.  Nothing can be enough to thank Him. Allah (God) says in the Holy Quran:

“And He gave you from all you asked of Him. And if you should count the favor of Allah. You could not enumerate them. Indeed, mankind is [generally] most unjust and ungrateful.”

Chapter Ibrahim 14. verse 34.

After reading this verse I realized that Allah has blessed me with countless blessings. So in return it is my responsibility to work in the way of God and become the best believer. I have to spend my life according to the instructions of Allah (God). If I do so Allah will increase my blessings.

Finally I was able to increase my blessings. Now that I have adopted the following changes in my life. I feel more blessed than ever. And I'm thankful to God for His mercy.

Who is Babar Chaudhry?

This is word to word story of my sister, I have become inspired by her personality changes recently and I asked her what ACTUALLY changed in her LIFE that she has become so calm, collected and honestly cool. Who is Babar Chaudhry is what her story will tell you briefly too. She is very detailed so do read her story of hope and blessings below. Here it goes.

Story Begins

It all started when I thought everything will be perfect.
I was enjoying life doing things everyone does well. Shopping, working, entertaining myself with everything life had gifted me. Never realized until now how much I had UNTIL I LOST IT All.
I always thought that I always deserved to be treated well.
And also that all the things I had was something I deserved as I worked hard. Now I know a lot of people work harder then I do and they deserve way more then me.

I even took my health for granted. Never knew that all was a blessing.

Had everything then until the first day of the rest of my life started?
Speaking of my personality, I am very nice to others. I treat outsiders very sweetly.
But at home and people close to me I was cranky and angry most of the times in life.
I think these habits I got from family and genes. I always think my best quality was my nature but then why was I so sensitive.
All these were not a big issue then until I realized.
Life was going well; off course issues came my disappointment with life.
An empty feeling inside that nobody cares for me and I am ALONE.
It’s called depression which comes due to UN-thankfulness now that I know about it more.
With un thankful nature I became unhappy sad and mad at life. With my own created worries and hurt, obviously body could not take it more and I got ill too.
When you are sick, you lose your career too.
   

One Day

Don’t think I was not religious; I would read The Holy Book of Muslims “Al-Quran” and read 5 times prayers and also gave charity. 
One day, I attended a lecture on insistent of my best friend.
Oh Allah (God) blesses her too. This lecture I had no idea of where I was going to whom, but I trust my pal so I went.
It turned out it was some guy named Babar R. Chaudhry, who is the founder of Arrahman Arraheem.
Arrahman Arraheem is a volunteer run organization, that is spreading the true word of Islam, harmony among other religions too.
This person who took the lecture was Babar Chaudhry, who is a teacher of Quran and explains from the Holy book and hadith of Last Prophet Muhammad (P.BU.H).

That day at the lecture, my journey towards Allah began.

But my nature was not a big issue then it was normal to have negative thoughts and have sensitivities. Yes they bugged me and came between my relationships but hey who is not like that right. I had lots of fears, fear of getting hurt by people.
Fear of losing loved ones. Fear of being alone, fear that my family will hate me.
So the lectures I started taking them daily.

This teacher Babar R Chaudhry who helped me understand Quran and what actually Allah my creator wants from me. And he has acted like a life coach to me and I am sure many students.

From the verses of the Quran, he explained purpose of our life is to do what the creator wants good deeds, positive thinking and spreading this across the world.

I had no idea that my anger made me stressed so much that my health went down.
Did YOU KNOW that according to Chinese medicine ANGER can mess your liver.
As liver controls your toxins, whereas anger creates toxins in the body.
And with these negative thoughts started chain of reactions in my body.

Anger

With the Quran understanding this teacher Babar Chaudhry, explained to me why Allah ask us to calm down and forgive and also let it go. Because Allah is so merciful Himself. And forgiving actually gives us peace of mind and sleep. As no one else is worth my expectations.
Because Allah likes those who do favor on others even when we do not get anything in return.
As Allah will take care of me if I listen to whatever Allah wants from me as His instruction follower (Iba-dur-Rehman).

Babar Chaudhry has helped many people as I have seen. After my experience I have nothing but only good to say about this organization that he founded www.Arrahman-Arraheem.comhttp://arrahman-arraheem.com/muslim-controls-anger/
And I loved one article http://arrahman-arraheem.com/10-ways-to-be-happy/
Now I am much peaceful, as that’s what Islam actually wants us to be.
I am calm, I actually am very organized, content, and thankful for each and everything I have.


They Say on the website www.Arrahman-Arraheem.com

All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. We all want to live freely and want people to respect our dignity and basic rights. Therefore, it is the responsibility of each one of us to work for this cause and ensure we not only give rights to each other but also ensure that we do not infringe the rights of others.

As for the crap and negative I had heard about this guy Babar R Chaudhry, is all made up.
I liked how they are doing work for Islam on a bigger scale, how they make awareness videos and visit all places.

Well, I don’t give much attention to it. As anything negative always comes from the evil. All positivist and good comes from the Creator of this universe only. And thanks to my brother for sharing my story.